Just one more thing since this I have shut down my ebay items, since I have no way of payment. I have lost a couple of sales as well. I have one person waiting on a $200 dollar item, which I e-mailed her about my situation. Once I explain what is going on with paypal, they assume that I am trying to scam them, which I am not.
I called Paypal on Skype all the way from South Africa, they have received the invoices and things which was a delay tactic it seems, because I bought from a guy on iOffer who disappeared and made a claim, they did not like this, nor the fact that I was doing video games which in Paypals eyes are all scamming, so they decided, because I had a claim for $120 and because I then had a further claim for $4856 from the Alibaba supplier, two claims are no good, also, I deal with video games so they shut me off, closed my account and I can only get money back in 180 days.
I am now registering with Moneybookers, who else is reliable that can be used on Ebay and on most sites with a good name, after all said and done, if I see the bad things about Paypal on Google, I cannot believe I registered with them in the first place.
If you can suggest merchants for people not living in the US or UK?
The Salehoo site staff and members really have a wealth of information; I appreciate your inputs by the way.